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exulansis

noun

The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.

After moving countries. People ask how it was. I say "good." It is not that I don't want to tell them. It is that I don't know where to start.

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sonder

noun

The profound realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own.

Sitting on the tube at rush hour, watching faces. Everyone going somewhere that matters to them. I felt very small and very connected at once.

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serendipity

noun

The occurrence of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way.

A wrong turn in Lisbon led me to the only bookshop I've ever cried in. I wasn't looking for it. It was looking for me.

Horace Walpole, 1754

kenopsia

noun

The eerie, unsettling atmosphere of a place that is usually busy but is now abandoned.

My school, visited years later on a holiday weekend. The hallways exactly as I remembered. No one there.

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hygge

noun

A Danish quality of cosiness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment.

A Sunday in February. Candles, soup, the rain outside. Nothing to do and nowhere to be. This is what I have been trying to recreate ever since.

Danish

wabi-sabi

noun

A Japanese worldview centred on the acceptance of transience and imperfection.

A cracked teacup my mother refused to throw away. It pours perfectly. The crack is part of its history now.

Japanese

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